Psychology Place

Relationship and Family Counselling

At South Melbourne Psychology we understand how and why relationships work or don’t work. Relationships are never simple because two people will always have some different needs, dreams, desires and ways of doing things. The key is not always to resolve conflict but to learn how to be with each other in the conflict to find a stronger and more vital relationship. At South Melbourne Psychology, we use research based techniques ( Gottman Method and Emotion Focused Therapy) that are proven to positively impact relationships.

As clinical psychologists, we are also able to recognise and treat the impact that mental health problems and addictions will have on the couple dynamic. There should be no stigma attached to saying you have emotional difficulties just as you would if there was a physical illness to manage. Seeing your partner struggle with their emotional well being is always challenging and often couples get themselves locked into negative patterns that can perpetuate a mental health issue. We help you develop better understanding, coping and communication strategies to manage these difficult times.

We are also trained to assess and work with the damaging effects of abusive behaviour and acts of betrayal in relationships. We will do so with the utmost sensitivity, with safety and reparation at the core of the work we do. Most relationships can repair form these difficult times. But if it seems too far gone, we will assist you in the separation process with mediation and referrals to appropriate services.